I have set one resolution for 2010: to make life a more positive experience for everyone I come in contact with.
Over the last year I seem to have seen more belittling, divisiveness, derision and thoughtless inconsideration to both myself and others than usual. Some of it I attribute to the stress of a difficult economy and unstable financial times for individuals and their families. I overheard others wish failure upon those who have had more success than they had. Envy rearing its ugly head was likely a cause. The worst was when I would encounter situations where individuals would actively attempt to make life worse for others. More energy seemed to be expended at tearing others down rather than improving themselves or accepting responsibility. But on this point I digress for the time being.
A world rife with this type of energy is not good enough for our son to grow up within.
I want to do something about this. I’m in a number of positions as a professional, an educator, and a volunteer to help influence and affect lives. If I can encourage someone in an endeavor, show someone how to do something they’re struggling with, or just bring a smile and a brighter outlook for the day I will do so. And I will hope that those I come in contact with will pass along the same courtesies, considerations, and respect that I will strive to show.
Each year the world feels as if it becomes more brazen and tactless. I’m going to do my part to reverse that within my sphere of influence and embody my motto, “Be Nice, Have Fun.”
I hope your 2009 ends as well as possible, and that your 2010 begins on a good note.
(Eagle-eyed users will notice this post subtitled “Brianstorming.” My blog posts involving opinion, commentary, and possibly volatile subjects will fall under this banner. Look for other changes as the site continues to evolve.)
Here here!
Amen! I have been verbally beated up by some of the meanest customers, this year at work. Each year people seem to get meaner, have less manners, no niceness, and absolutely no humility. And I kill them with kindness because they are the least deserving.